Early Years Newsletter

Filed in Early Years Newsletters | Posted on November 22, 2019

Early Years Newsletter

22nd November 2019

Important Dates

  • Saturday 30th November 2019 – FOSS Christmas Fayre 11am – Please come along
  • Wednesday 27th November – Pre School Dress Rehearsal.
  • Tuesday 3rd December 2019 – Pre-School Nativity Play 9.30am (All Parents Welcome)
  • 9th December 2019 –Monday Early Years Christmas Party and Magic Show (All children invited) 10am-12pm
  • 13th December 2019 – Friday- All departments close at 12noon
  • 19th December 2019 – Thursday- Nursery Mince Pie and Mingle 2.30-3.30pm (All children & Parents Invited)
  • 20th December 2019 – Friday- Baby Unit Stay and Play 10-12noon (All children & Parents Invited)
  • 24th December 2019 – Tuesday- Baby unit and Nursery close at 1pm for Christmas

The site will be closed for the Christmas period, Tuesday 24th December 1.00pm – Wednesday 1st January inclusive (unless requested as holiday this period is payable) Babies and Nursery re-open on Thursday 2nd January.

Pre School Letter sound next week is ‘D’

A huge thank you for the questionnaires we have received back, it’s really helpful for us to look at areas we can improve and reflect on what is going well. If you have not received a questionnaire please speak to a member of staff.

Last week we talked about emotional development and building children’s self esteem. Today all our lives are busy and time is always of an essence, which can often mean we find it easier, where our young children are concerned to do things for them. At Silverhill we try to make sure we give children those opportunities to be independent and give them strategies to support them in their emotional development.

This piece below was shown to me by one of our practitioners and it provides a powerful message. I thought you may like to read it as well –
From the diary of a 2-year-old:

Today I woke up and wanted to get dressed by myself but was told “No, we don’t have time, let me do it.”
This made me sad.
I wanted to feed myself for breakfast but was told,
“No, you’re too messy, let me do it for you.”
This made me feel frustrated.
I wanted to walk to the car and get in on my own but was told, “No, we need to get going, we don’t have time. Let me do it.”
This made me cry.
I wanted to get out of the car on my own but was told “No, we don’t have time, let me do it.”
This made me want to run away.
Later I wanted to play with blocks but was told “no, not like that, like this…”
I decided I didn’t want to play with blocks anymore. I wanted to play with a doll that someone else had, so I took it. I was told “No, don’t do that! You have to share.”

I’m not sure what I did, but it made me sad. So I cried. I wanted a hug but was told “No, you’re fine, go play”.
I’m being told it’s time to pick up. I know this because someone keeps saying, “Go pick up your toys.”
I am not sure what to do, I am waiting for someone to show me.
“What are you doing? Why are you just standing there? Pick up your toys, now!”
I was not allowed to dress myself or move my own body to get to where I needed to go, but now I am being asked to pick things up.
I’m not sure what to do. Is someone supposed to show me how to do this? Where do I start? Where do these things go? I am hearing a lot of words but I do not understand what is being asked of me. I am scared and do not move.
I lay down on the floor and cry.
When it was time to eat I wanted to get my own food but was told “no, you’re too little. Let me do it.”
This made me feel small. I tried to eat the food in front of me but I did not put it there and someone keeps saying “Here, try this, eat this…” and putting things in my face. I didn’t want to eat anymore. This made me want to throw things and cry.

I can’t get down from the table because no one will let me…because I’m too small and I can’t. They keep saying I have to take a bite. This makes me cry more. I’m hungry and frustrated and sad. I’m tired and I need someone to hold me. I do not feel safe or in control. This makes me scared. I cry even more.
I am 2. No one will let me dress myself, no one will let me move my own body where it needs to go, no one will let me attend to my own needs.
However, I am expected to know how to share, “listen”, or “wait a minute”. I am expected to know what to say and how to act or handle my emotions. I am expected to sit still or know that if I throw something it might break….But, I do NOT know these things.
I am not allowed to practice my skills of walking, pushing, pulling, zipping, buttoning, pouring, serving, climbing, running, throwing or doing things that I know I can do. Things that interest me and make me curious, these are the things I am NOT allowed to do.
I am 2. I am not terrible…I am frustrated. I am nervous, stressed out, overwhelmed, and confused. I need a hug.

Credit: Dejah Roman

We hope you have a lovely weekend.

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